College Student's Life

Psychologist and student dialogue, to teach them how to cultivate their interacted with, “love.” ”I like the boy next door class, but he has a girlfriend, how should handle?” “My girlfriend and I broke up, but I really liked her very much, what should I do?” Many college students have encountered similar problems, but how to deal with is not clear, but also hard to consult.

In zhejiang forestry university, there is such a psychologist, she not only teachers often helps students with mental problems at school, also recently opened “fall in love” lecture, the students of the heat. Recently, zhejiang forestry university psychologist XuZhiGong, began in school undergraduate love “with” the lecture, special relationship, good communication teaching students knowledge and skills.

Lecture was launched a warm students, although has held many games, but the games were not only attracts a junior student, also attracted many graduate (BBS) Attend, even some of the young unmarried teachers also secretly sat in the corner listening.

Each lecture is highly praised. The students said: “we after 80, after 90 million only-child basically, in the process of growing up no brothers or sisters, and communication ability really needs to improve the relationship, especially in the aspects of learning, so some correct love really necessary knowledge.” Recently, “love” lecture again in zhejiang forestry university teaching.

XuZhiGong originally prepared in 4 teaching classroom lectures for everyone, but unexpectedly, only can accommodate 100 people classroom suddenly welled up the 300 students last class to change to the location of the maximum. ”To learn to love, good and heterosexual contacts to learn more, develop their ability to love.” This is XuZhiGong repeatedly emphasized to college students.

XuZhiGong thinks, many students after entering university, in conformity with love under the influence of the nasty, but due to the lack of heterosexual contacts with before, lack of love others and be more power to love others, so in love easily. If encounter problems, not very good, can adjust good psychological, will affect the study and the life, still can appear serious psychological crisis, so students fall in love before, it is important to cultivate the ability to “love”.

XuZhiGong think that love is the ability of the students, communication ability, mostly singleton in care for each other, love each other, etc, so as to strengthen predecessors more ability of love “training. How to improve students' ability of love “? XuZhiGong suggested, at first